About

"Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the 
darkness of others..." - Pema Chodron

"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
- Agnes Repplier


Aviva Kamander, LCSW - Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Life Coach, Advanced Reiki Practitioner

I am a New York State Licensed Clinical Social Worker in private practice, with an office in Mamaroneck, NY, offering teletherapy and in-person appointments.

I have the privilege of working with people in a sacred way, honestly and directly dealing with experiences, thoughts, physical sensations, and emotions.

Individuals are capable of immense change and growth. I use evidence-based treatment methods in a supportive, open, and encouraging way. I have had extensive training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Compassion Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness.

Nowadays, we know so much more about the brain-body, the physical elements of emotions, and the key ingredients that contribute to sustained well-being.

I aim to share with you what I know about alleviating suffering and leading a meaningful life.

Throughout my life, I have searched for knowledge on how to identify personal fulfillment, improve health and wellness, develop a healthy sense of self, and maintain momentum for personal transformation. My experience and training have led to a deep understanding of the change process. My approach is direct, empathetic, and action-oriented.

From my diverse experiences, I have learned that:
  • The way you speak to yourself matters. Negative self-talk can be detrimental, but it can be changed.
  • Shame is a major contributor to emotional suffering and mental illness. This emotion thrives in secrecy.
  • Compassion is a reliable way of improving your relationships with yourself and others.
  • Life is complicated, challenging, and many times unfair. Knowing what you need and developing the skills to support those needs helps make the best out of life's difficult situations.
I lead mindfulness workshops for solopreneurs, writers, and mom groups.

I developed and led workshops on topics such as Move Your Life Forward: Let Go of Perfectionism, Self Love: Loving Kindness and Guided Meditation, Centering During Uncertain Times, & Navigating the Gray Zone: Dating with Assertiveness and Compassion. More information can be found on the Workshops tab on the left.

In the past, I worked as a psychotherapist for the Jewish Board of Family and Children's Services for one of their outpatient mental health clinics in the Bronx. Also, I worked as an adjunct professor for the Master's in Counseling program at The College of New Rochelle and as a college counselor/advisor/adjunct professor for Touro College in Brooklyn & Queens.

Professional Associations:
  • The Compassionate Mind Foundation
  • ACBS - Association for Contextual Behavioral Science
  • The Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy

Additional Training:
  • Ambivalence in Motivational Interviewing: Advances in Theory and Practice Dec 2022 Columbia University School of Social Work
  • Level 2 ICF Accredited Certified Life Coach, MCLC, Oct 2022 Certified Life Coach Institute
  • Level 1 ICF Accredited Certified Life Coach, CLC, July 2022 Certified Life Coach Institute
  • Motivational Interviewing & Compassion-Focused Therapy CFT June 2022 Compassionate Mind Foundation
  • Struggling With the Inner Critic Spring 2022 NICABM
  • Reiki 1 & 2 January 2022 Reiki Master Libby Barnett
  • Compassion-Focused Therapy CFT for Anger Management September 2021 Compassionate Mind Foundation
  • Next Level Practitioner Training July 2021-ongoing NICABM
  • ACT Peer Consultation & Training Group Fall 2020-ongoing ACBS Social Work SIG Peer Training
  • Expert Strategies to Help Clients Develop Tolerance for Emotional Distress Spring 2021 NICABM
  • Restorative Yoga Teacher Training Winter 2021 Jillian Pransky
  • Compassion-Focused Therapy for Complex Cases Fall 2020 The Compassionate Mind Foundation
  • Magic ACT: Transforming Pain Into Purpose with Clinical RFT Fall 2020 Praxis
  • Advanced Master Program on the Treatment of Trauma Fall 2020 NICABM
  • Working with Fear Spring 2020 NICABM
  • ACBS World Conference 18 ONLINE July 2020 Association for Contextual Behavioral Science
  • Clinical Application of Compassion Series  2019 NICABM
  • Compassion-Focused Therapy: Foundations and Applications 2019 The Center for Compassion-Focused Therapy
  • Second Annual Compassionate Mind Summit and Retreat 2019 The Center for Compassion-Focused Therapy
  • CBT and the Effective Management of Mood and Anxiety Disorders NYC-CBT
  • Spirituality, Neuroscience, and Narrative Surrounding Trauma MFT-NY
  • Beyond the Basics: Advanced Motivational Interviewing Skills Columbia University School of Social Work
  • Introduction to Compassion-Focused Therapy CFT  Palabra Counseling and Training Center
  • First Annual Compassionate Mind Summit and Retreat 2018 The Center for Compassion-Focused Therapy
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Adolescents JBFCS
  • Attachment and Trauma: The Neurobiology of Healing ISC International
  • End of Life Choices Columbia University School of Social Work
  • The Therapeutic Use of Narrative Columbia University School of Social Work
  • Essentials of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy JBFCS
  • Understanding the Gut Brain: Stress, Appetite, Digestion, and Mood IBP
  • Making Mindfulness Work Webinar Series NICABM (x2)
  • How the Brain Forms New Habits: Why Willpower is not Enough IBP
  • New Brain Science Tele-webinar NICABM (x2)
  • ACT - Acceptance Commitment Therapy JBFCS
  • MI - Motivational Interviewing JBFCS
  • STAIR - Skills Training in Affective and Interpersonal Regulation, Trauma JBFCS
  • CBT - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy JBFCS
  • Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy REBT/CBT – Advanced/Primary Practicum, The Albert Ellis Institute
  • Master of Science - Columbia University School of Social Work
  • Bachelor of Arts -  Speech Communications SUNY College at Oneonta

Life Experience:
  • Psychotherapist
  • Life & Business Coach
  • Mother of 2 children (high school & college)
  • Adjunct Professor
  • Memory Training Counselor
  • Telecom Project Manager
  • Network Administrator
  • Academic Adviser/Career Counselor
  • Real Estate Agent
  • Administrative Assistant
  • and more